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What Stage Are You In?


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What Stage Are You In?


Divorced? Thinking about divorce? Divorced for years?

As you go through the separation process, there are stages many people go through.

I'm Karen Becker, Family Coach, Divorced Family Coordinator. You can learn more about me here

Regardless of what stage you're in, the biggest challenge is that feeling of being unsure. The insecurity that comes from not knowing, that comes from trying to research, but not knowing where to start (or stop); the draining feeling from being emotionally and mentally exhausted is real. My work brings you peace through answers and guidance.

Keep scrolling for more support and guidance whatever stage you're in. As you scroll, you'll find FREE goodies along the way! Don't forget to give the Facebook page a like! Tips, inspiration, and humor delivered to your feed everyday. 

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Newly Divorced


Newly Divorced


Your new life starts here

No one gets into a relationship in order to break up, but there it is. It happens. It sucks! And here you are, wondering where to go next. There's a sense of loss and a feeling of being lost that comes with separation and divorce. That's the bad news. 

The good news is that your new life is yours to create. It's yours to do whatever you want with. What are you waiting for? Let's start now and build a life that doesn't hold you back. That fulfills you. That's everything you've ever wanted. I created a training to help you do just that, best of all it's FREE! You can get a copy of it sent right to your email by entering info below. 

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Co-Parenting Support


Co-Parenting Support


Does this sound like you?
I’m over the divorce. I’ve moved on and am just trying to find some peace. I hate hearing my phone ring because I see my ex’s name pop up on it and I never know what attack is coming my way when I open it. I just want to co-parent for the sake of our kids! I’ve tried everything and just don’t see how it’ll ever change. I feel hopeless.

After helping hundreds of individuals and couples, I've heard it all when it comes to divorce and co-parenting and I've been able to help. What does help mean? Help is a plan for making co-parenting work - even with the most difficult ex, an unbiased ear to listen when things get tough, and a road to peace. Peace within your life, peace as co-parents, and most importantly, peace for your children.

Let me know how I can help you. Click on the Contact Me page and tell me your story. I reply to all my emails and will let you know how I may best be of service to you. 


Required to take a co-parenting course, but don't have the time?

Curious has your back. In this digital co-parenting course, you'll learn everything you would in a live course and all from the comfort of your house.

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Parenting Strategies


Parenting Strategies


Divorced or not, you still have to be a parent. Which of these issues apply to you:

  1. My ex has a different parenting style and my kids don't listen to me because of it.
  2. Terrible Two's transitioned to Treacherous Three's which hasn't seemed to end.
  3. The divorce is hard enough for my kids, I want to make sure my parenting doesn't make things any harder.
  4. All of the above.

I get it. There's so much focus on the divorce and not enough on the parenting. This is where I come in.

Your job is to be there for your kids, to show them that this divorce is hard, but you can get through it together. So exactly how do you communicate that to your kids? In the Badges section of this site, you'll find the Communication Toolkit. This toolkit is designed to help you with each area of communicating with your kids after divorce. You'll be able to earn your badge as the parent who "Keeps Communication Open" in your home or "Communicates Positively about difficult pick-ups/drop-offs". Can't find what you're looking for? Just click on the Contact Me page and let me know. 

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Step-Parent Support


Step-Parent Support


Whether you are a step-parent, are in a relationship with a soon to be step-parent, or your ex is inviting a step-parent into the lives of your children, this is the page for you.  

Have you heard of the Stepmom Summit? The Stepmom Summit includes:

  • over 20 hours of video interviews from experts on thriving blended families
  • access to a private FB community of other Stepmom's where you will gain support from others going through what you are
  • tools to help you build a solid marriage and blended family

There's a new step-parent in the picture.  Whether they're yours or your ex's, telling the kids about it is a daunting task.  Obviously no one is replacing Mom or Dad, but what exactly is the role of the step-parent?  How do both Mom and Dad help the children feel excited, safe, and secure as they get to know their new step-parent?  What happens if they're not meshing well?  

Check out this communication toolkit for you to use.  Not only does this have phrases that can be used when introducing your partner into the lives of your kids, but it offers ideas to help ease the transition as everyone creates a new normal with the addition of a step-parent.



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Kaern Becker, MA Life Coach